Limos to elite VIP parties. Special outfits for each conference event. Celebrities at every turn. The Weinermobile! More than 1500 women bloggers descended upon Chicago last week - many from remote areas of the country - and soaked in this and so much more. Given all the primps, promos and perks the doyennes of the blogosphere received, one would think that these women died and went to heaven. But rather, the comments I heard most often? "I am overwhelmed!" "This is serious work for me." "No, I won't see Chicago, because my schedule is packed."Two things struck me as I marveled at these women.
1) Most have turned their thoughts, preferences and life commentary into serious business. They take meetings with some of the most influential and successful marketers in business today - all of whom are eager to crack the code and understand how they can become "the X of choice" of America's most influential mom and female voices.
2) Amidst the frenzy of "circle Rs," most of the women reiterated the value of the conference - as it was initially intended. To get blogging women together. To share ideas, perspectives and challenges. To network with brands and marketers they value. As such, the lounges and casual events got the best reviews. Bloggers appreciated the opportunity to chat with one another. To the chagrin, I am sure, of all the companies who sponsored sessions, many confessed to skipping the formal programs.
My husband likened my description of BlogHer 2009 to his days in the record industry. Record label giants would flock to radio programmer conferences, and spend many, many thousands of dollars to woo influential radio programmers with dinners, parties and lavish gifts, in their quest to "release" the next Sheryl Crow. "It's sooo old school," he said - chuckling at the juxtaposition against so called "new media."
Sure, BlogHer attendees seemed tickled and excited about the attention and the goodies offered by the sponsors - who wouldn't? But it's blogging they care most about. That drive to succeed is what we as marketers should support - instead of focusing on the swag. As marketers, let's help them do their jobs better. Differentiate their content with great ideas. Build their audiences. Integrate meaningfully with brands and products. Stage thoughtful events and contests. If we ask for feedback - like everyone is - let's make sure it's something they care about.
Remember Steve Martin's wife played by Bernadette Peters in The Jerk? "I just want the stuff," she purred in one scene. Not true with these gals. They want success.






